This is my winter holiday essay homework - lol!
What makes ‘a match made in heaven’?
- Both are independent as an adult.
- Be comfortable about themselves.
- Do not need to rely on the other person to feel good about themselves.
- Both are committed to each other.
- Have the same goal to stick together no matter what.
- Solve problems for that goal.
- Trust each other and willing to give each other some alone time.
- Communicate with each other believing in the power of it.
- Communicate with each other about not only bad things (problems) but also good things (gratitude).
- Express concerns/issues logically and respectfully.
- Listen to each other without interruption.
- Willing to come up with solutions that will satisfy both.
- Be good friends (‘click’ with each other)
- Similar values in finance, family plans, religions, place to live, work-life-balance, lifestyle.
- Have a common interest that they can have a fun conversation with for hours.
- Be open to trying new things with each other.
I'd love to hear others opinions, regardless of their relationship status. Is there anything else that you think you would like to / make habit of doing to keep a healthy relationship?
Happy reading and writing!
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